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"A journey of a 1000 mile begins with the first step", and that first step is purely mental, in very much the same way, we plan an actual journey. We plan as follows;
1. What is my destination?
2. How far is it?
3. What mode of transport do I use?
4. Identify the list of wherewithals?
5. Physically what is required of you?
6. And the most important and final objective- Whatever be the mode of travel, YOU WISH IT TO BE A PLEASANT JOURNEY.
To my mind the DESTINATION or your goal should not be the MQS, like in a journey, you cross several stations before you arrive at your final destination. Similarly the MQS should be one of the stations on the way to your final destination.
Just as you wizz past stations on the way, not paying too much attention nor importance, the same way the MQS should not be paid attention to nor importance.
Having said that, i can hear the refrain from you- But what could be more important than the MQS? Isint that what we are struggling about?
Remember, we need to make the journey pleasant, pleasurable and enjoyable. In order to do this, the complete focus, emphasis and importance is on the EXECUTION OF EACH SHOT. The correct execution of the shot should give you PLEASURE and JOY. and THE CORRECT EXECUTION OF THE SHOT and the resulting pleasure in doing so is YOUR FINAL DESTINATION.
To execute your shot correctly and to obtain that pleasure, you need to execute each and every step of your SOA with full and complete concentration.
To execute a string of such shots (without changing your grip) is a far more important goal than the MQS.
To be so completely focussed in executing shot after shot, string after string, till you realize that you have finished the match and that you were shooting in the ZONE and in RHYTHM.
THIS SHOULD BE YOUR GOAL.
You need to apply discipline in your mental thought process for each SOA. Learn to focus completely on your SOA, PUSH aside all thoughts that have nothing to do with your SOA aside. Gradually, with due dilligince and effort, (Box Drilling) you will be able to complete the match with this FOCUS.
Now we talk about the wherewithals, the mental ones are crucial some of these are as follows;
1. Please
ALL OF YOU GUYS LEARN TO RESPECT YOURSELF When you write on this forum, I do not understand on what premise or mistaken identity you make comments that DEMEAN YOURSELF.
Comments such as "Oh what a fool I was, how stupid I am, etc etc..... It really pains me to read such stuff. Are these comments made in order to be humble?
Humility is fine but not at the expense of your SELF RESPECT......
Drill yourself, train yourself never ever to demean yourself in YOUR OWN THOUGHTS FIRST AND FOREMOST. A healthy self respect leads to healthy SELF IMAGE, which in turn leads to higher virtues.
Dress like a begger and you will become one. So mentally, please dress correctly, always and above all have self respect for yourself.
This is a prayer song from the movie Guddi ( Jaya Bachan).
humko man ki shakti dena, man VIjay karen. Doosro ke jai se pehle, KHUDKI JAI KAREIN