thank you sir AK27, i was merely invoking some rather vivid experiences of marital(yes marital NOt martial) discord that I have witnessed or been a party to . I would have included 'sticks/breadsticks/chickendrumsticks/dipsticks/broomsticks/lipsticks/assorted pots and pans/other household appliances such as mixer/juicer/grinder.....,'the list is practically endless; but the forum rules explicitly prohibit sexist remarks and more importantly , being a timid married soul , i didn't want to risk the wrath of 'the almighty'!
I am glad I could get the point accross without resorting to extreme measures...... Anytime anyone starts screaming and waving things around my knees turn to jelly, my palpitations skyrocket, i become disoriented and utterly confused. So it's my personal opinion that in such cases , whether I am armed or unarmed, my response time will be effectively slowed down and i would probably choose to turn tail and run rather than try and pull my gun! After all as the adage goes 'discretion,is indeed, the better part of valor!